url: use ada::url_aggregator for parsing urls

[anonrig]

This pull request:

• updates ada and replaces ada::url with ada::url_aggregator in correct places
• removes ICU requirement from URL
• improves the performance of URL parsing significantly

The release notes for Ada v2.0 can be found from https://www.yagiz.co/announcing-ada-url-parser-v2-0/

Added the notable-change label due to removing the requirement for ICU for proper hostname parsing.

Benchmark CI: https://ci.nodejs.org/view/Node.js%20benchmark/job/benchmark-node-micro-benchmarks/1314/

url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='auth' withBase='false'              ***    106.73 %      ±19.04% ±25.55% ±33.70%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='auth' withBase='true'               ***    111.98 %      ±18.10% ±24.30% ±32.05%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='dot' withBase='false'               ***    112.52 %      ±16.28% ±21.83% ±28.73%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='dot' withBase='true'                ***     91.22 %      ±17.19% ±23.05% ±30.35%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='file' withBase='false'              ***     31.72 %      ±12.53% ±16.68% ±21.72%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='file' withBase='true'               ***     31.05 %      ±12.37% ±16.46% ±21.43%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='idn' withBase='false'               ***     83.54 %      ±15.31% ±20.49% ±26.90%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='idn' withBase='true'                ***     81.76 %      ±16.08% ±21.57% ±28.44%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='javascript' withBase='false'        ***    137.30 %      ±18.20% ±24.43% ±32.23%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='javascript' withBase='true'         ***    111.40 %      ±16.83% ±22.53% ±29.58%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='long' withBase='false'              ***     25.11 %       ±8.80% ±11.73% ±15.28%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='long' withBase='true'               ***     23.16 %       ±8.63% ±11.52% ±15.06%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='percent' withBase='false'           ***     41.12 %      ±14.86% ±19.79% ±25.79%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='percent' withBase='true'            ***     37.21 %      ±12.93% ±17.23% ±22.48%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='short' withBase='false'             ***    123.39 %      ±18.93% ±25.36% ±33.34%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='short' withBase='true'              ***    103.11 %      ±17.88% ±23.97% ±31.54%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='wpt' withBase='false'               ***     35.04 %       ±2.25%  ±3.02%  ±3.98%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='wpt' withBase='true'                ***      9.76 %       ±4.21%  ±5.62%  ±7.36%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='ws' withBase='false'                ***    133.03 %      ±19.31% ±25.91% ±34.16%
url/legacy-vs-whatwg-url-parse.js method='whatwg' e=1 type='ws' withBase='true'                 ***    113.69 %      ±18.69% ±25.08% ±33.08%

Be aware that when doing many comparisons the risk of a false-positive
result increases. In this case, there are 40 comparisons, you can thus
expect the following amount of false-positive results:
  2.00 false positives, when considering a   5% risk acceptance (*, **, ***),
  0.40 false positives, when considering a   1% risk acceptance (**, ***),
  0.04 false positives, when considering a 0.1% risk acceptance (***)

cc @lemire @miguelteixeiraa