net: add new options to net.Socket and net.Server

[ShogunPanda]

Hello!
This PR adds the new following options to net.Socket.connect:

• noDelay (boolean): If set to true, calls uv_tcp_nodelay on the socket after connection. By default it is disabled.
• keepAlive (boolean) and keepAliveDelay (number): If set to true calls uv_tcp_nodelay on the socket after connection. By default it is disabled.

This changes are needed as preliminary work on #34185 to avoid excessive JS to C++ bridging.
As I'm not a C++ expert, I encountered the following problems:

1. Not sure how to test changes (even though test suite is passing so apparently nothing is broken)
2. Error handling in TCPWrap::AfterConnect was tentative so some C++ expert should take a look. Moreover, what shall we do if uv_tcp_connect succeeds but any of uv_tcp_nodelay or uv_tcp_keepalive fails? Shall we close the socket or let user handle it? Currently I don't do anything.

Once this is initially reviewed, I will also add (either here or in a new PR) the analogous on inbound connections.